LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP ANGLE

A lot of people don't associate sex with God - they associate it with Satan as if sex is not holy.!! The bible is explicit when it comes to sex.Sex is holy within marriage,and there is no prescribed style.

Nowhere in the Bible does it say that the missionary position is the only sexual style.Not discussing sex in a relationship leads to divorce!!women who complained:my husband treats me as if I were his brother,I am tired of getting sex fortnightly,like a salary. You are a lucky one to be getting sex fortnightly,since some wives only get it on big days, like elections. Many husbands leave their wives to seek sexual pleasures in Hill brow.

Have you ever asked yourself what those women have that you don't. Wives have become very frigid and even sleep with their panties. If you're a married woman, you should sleep naked and let your bum touch your husband.

Today you find men going out of their way to get a glimpse of a vagina.They page through magazines and even go to lingerie departments in stores hoping to see what's hidden under panties because their wives hide it from them.

Marriage is about being free with your body in front of your partner. A woman should parade naked and do some modelling to tempt her husband. There are many married women who don't know how their husbands' penis look like. She only feels it when he enters her. They've never touched it, let alone seen it, because the husband switches off the lights before undressing.

A penis is a wife's toy - she is supposed to play with it. Couples should make out time for sex and stop complaining about being tired after a day's work. God created sex for procreation and also for pleasure. You can't marry and not have a good time in bed. WHO SAID YOU CAN ONLY HAVE SEX AT NIGHT? Why can't you drive home during lunch and have a quickie with your wife? We're all equal in sex - it's not just about a woman satisfying a man. You have to satisfy each other. Have you ever seen a woman who has been satisfied?

Have you noticed how she glows and becomes energetic?

May the Lord help us.This is the 'Whole Truth, Nothing But The Truth. Age has nothing to do with sex.The older you are the more you should enjoy it. Make sure your spouse reads this.
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In most Singles and Married programs, you always hear the ministers Of God say "there are some people here who would have made it great in life but blood is crying against them, if you know you've shed blood especially abortion please come out". Then you see only ladies trooping out in shame, in tears and in remorse just to get saved.

Why only women? What about the men that impregnated them or sponsor the abortion or rejected the pregnancy? "men are not left out, men should always come out too.

Now I have this to say, guys, whenever you see women coming out, praying for grace, pleading for mercy on issues concerning abortion, my brother join them and pray too if you have approved abortion before! It's not only women that do abortion! Most of you men even sponsor or support abortion, some of you even force and push her to do that reasons being that you aren't ready to father a child. Why did you sleep with her when you know you are not ready to father a child? Do you think sex is free? So long as that lady commits abortion, that blood will also cry on your head because it's your sperm that formed in her. No woman can become pregnant herself.

You all should try and search yourself and if found guilty, ask for mercy because many destinies are being caged because of the sin of abortion. Many marriages are suffering because of this. But God's mercy is available.
Some men whose partner are believing God for children, please confess to your wife if you've aborted a pregnancy before and ask for mercy, and that womb will open. Most of you will allow your wives suffer what she doesn't know about.

I just felt burdened to say this. Abortion is a murder case. If you become pregnant out of wedlock, keep the pregnancy. Your innocent baby have the right to live. Give birth to your baby and take correction.

The safest way not to become pregnant before marriage is NOT TO HAVE SEX BEFORE YOUR WEDDING!
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The majority of Proverbs 31 describes a virtuous woman who leads her home with
integrity, discipline and giftedness. This wife
and mother is a leader not because she tries
to be one, but because of who she is.

Her Assets
She is trustworthy (v.11)

She is a positive influence (v.12)

She is a hard worker v.13, 14, 19, 24-27)

She is a planner v.21, 22)

She is protective(v.27)

Her Achievements
She meets the needs of her home (v.15)

She invests for her household (v.16)

She keeps herself in shape (v.17)

She helps her husband become successful
(v.23)

Her Attitudes
Delightful (v.13)

Healthy (v.18)

Compassionate (v.20)

Unselfish (v.20)

Public (v.25)

Her Applause
From her family (v.28)

From her husband (v.28,29)

From God's Word (v.30)

From her works (v.31)

Proverbs 31: 29 and 30 says "Many
daughters have done well, but you excel
them all… a woman who fears the LORD, she shall be praised."

IF you want to win; then win someone's heart

IF you want to hide something; then hide others faults

IF you want to acquire something; then acquire knowledge

IF you want to give something; then give to charity

IF you want to say something; then say the truth

IF you want to show something; then show kindness

IF you want to leave something; then leave your pride

IF you want to count something; then count your blessings

IF you want to be happy; then make others smile

IF you want to share something; then share your knowledge...
                                               
One day a school teacher wrote on the board the following:

9×1=7
9×2=18
9×3=27
9×4=36
9×5=45
9×6=54
9×7=63
9×8=72
9×9=81
9×10=90

When she was done, she looked to the students and they were all laughing at her, because of the first equation which was wrong, and then the teacher said the following,

"I wrote that first one wrong on purpose, because I wanted you to learn something important. This was for you to know how the world out there will treat you. You can see that I wrote RIGHT 9 times, but none of you congratulated me for it; you all laughed and criticized me because of one wrong thing I did.

So this is the lesson...:
'The world will never appreciate the good you do a million times, but will criticize the one wrong thing you do... But don't get discouraged, ALWAYS RISE ABOVE ALL THE LAUGHTER AND CRITICISM. STAY STRONG.' "

Doctors can chronicle in great detail what happens to the human body when a person dies. But no one can say with certainty what happens to the person’s soul when the heart stops beating. Scientists tend to shy away from this topic because it’s hard to prove where the soul and essence of a person lies within the body, let alone if it really exists in the first place.

Yet, time and time again, people from different faiths and cultural backgrounds speak on these things in a spiritual sense. Those who have experienced near-death experiences often describe seeing a white light or tunnel. These individuals also describe a feeling of peace and calm and a desire to approach that light.

The closest we will get to understanding something so complicated and abstract as the soul or what happens to our spiritual being when we pass on is to hear the personal stories from people. Those who have come very close to the other side but made their way back to the world of the living.

Zack Clements is a teen who was looking forward to turning 17 years old on May 5th.
Zack who lives in Brownwood, Texas, is a regular teen who is part of his high school’s football team and loves to play video games.
 
Victory Life Academy was holding their football endurance training that day.
Out of nowhere and without warning the Warrior Athletics student collapse on the football field. The principal, Gary Bay, used to be a volunteer ambulance crew. He got to work to help and save Zack.



An ambulance crew and coach performed CPR on the teen. “The situation was one of the gravest I’d seen,” says Bay.
Zack was transferred to the Children’s Medical Center in Fort Worth, Texas.

By the time Zack’s parents Teresa and Billy Clements met with doctors at the hospital, they were given the grim news.
Zack had been dead for 20 minutes. Doctors were concerned of irreversible brain damage.

Miraculously, Zack’s heart began to beat on his own.
The teenager was put in a medically induced coma. His body temperature was lowered so his brain could recover from the cardiac trauma.

Days after dying and returning back to life, Zack woke up from his hospital bed.
He shocked the staff who were worried he would be like other people who never wake up from a medically induced coma after such a traumatic experience.

His heart stop beating due to a rhythm problem, small abnormal coronary artery, and inflammation.
Doctors admit they do not work on someone’s body for that long. After a certain time when there is no pulse, doctors have no other choice but to call the time.

Three days after his heart stopped breathing, Zack told his parents something he had seen.
Zack said he had seen a man with a thick beard, blue eyes, and long, ruffled hair. He said Jesus was surrounded by angels.

Zack revealed the man did not tell him his name but he knew it was Jesus.
“He put his hand on my shoulder and told me that everything was going to be all right. It made me feel like someone was watching over me and I was going to get through it,” says Zack.
From that experience, the teen says he has changed.
“Since it happened, I feel like I’m a stronger person,” admits Zack.

His mom, Teresa says her son told her he had seen a row of angels and the prettiest one there was Jesus.
Billy and Teresa have received a lot of love and support from complete strangers across the country. The family has also encountered criticism.

One of the accusations the parents have received is that they gave their son a pill that would make it appear he went into cardiac arrest.
“People can argue science and logic, but they can’t argue somebody’s personal experience. They can’t take that away from Zack,” argues Billy.

Zack is back at school but he cannot join in any sports or physical activities for the time being.
He will be wearing a defibrillator vest that detects life-threatening heart rhythm. The vest is equipped to send a shock to the heart in such circumstances.

Almost three weeks after the life changing event, his family threw him a belated birthday party.
Everyone from first responders to hospital staff were invited to help Zack celebrate turning 17 and being alive.

Cardiologist, Dr. Lisa Roten who was part of Zack’s medical team says that society does not like to think what happens when we die.
“It’s an uncomfortable thing. But somebody who is not clinically dead or has not been in that state cannot say what Zack did or did not see. He is somebody who, for 20 minutes, didn’t have a heartbeat,” explains Dr. Roten.

Source- Fabgist 247

1. EVERY ONE YOU MARRY HAS A WEAKNESS.

Only God has no weakness, Every rose flower has its own thorn

2. EVERY ONE YOU MARRY HAS A DARK HISTORY.

No one is an angel, avoid digging one's past forgive and forget

3. EVERY MARRIAGE HAS ITS OWN CHALLENGES.

Marriage is not bed of roses every shinning marriage has gone through its own test of fire

4. EVERY MARRIAGE HAS DIFFERENT LEVELS OF SUCCESS.

We can never be equal, some will be far front and others far behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time your marriage dreams shall come true

5. TO MARRY IS TO DECLARE A WAR.

When you marry you enter in to a battle field. Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.

6. THERE IS NO PERFECT MARRIAGE.

There is no ready made marriage. Marriage is a hard work, volunteer yourself and perfect it daily

7. GOD CANNOT GIVE YOU A COMPLETE PERSON YOU DESIRE.

He gives you, him or her inform of raw materials in order for you to mould what you desire

8. TO MARRY IS TO TAKE A RISK.

You cannot predict what will happen after marriage, situation may change, so leave a room for adjustment

9. MARRIAGE IS NOT A CONTRACT, IT IS PERMANENT.

Marriage needs total commitment, love is the glue that makes a couple stick together. Divorce starts in the mind

10. EVERY MARRIAGE HAS A PRICE TO PAY.

There is no free love in marriage, You cannot love without giving a sacrifice

Blessed marriage life friends.

I actually got this story from a friend of mine that needs urgent response. 
Please read through careful and kindly leave your advice for her to read.

"Hello, my name is Stella, i started dating this guy in Dec. last year. We live in the same compound which is very odd. I never wanted to date him cause of that but he convinced me and went ahead to go see my elder sister and her hubby to ask for permission for us to date and possible my hand in marriage.

We were doing very well. He is Yoruba, i’m from Delta. He is such a nice caring and sweet guy that I fell madly in love with him. He takes very good care of me and showers me with love and everything. Fast forward to Jan/Feb this year, a certain caller kept calling and whenever they talk, they speak in Yoruba and sometimes in English.

He gives this attitude like the caller isn’t important. I started suspecting him. I asked and he said they’re friends. I just ignored but was still observing them. He never for once used me as his dp except on my birthday but he uses a pics of a particular girl once in a while. When I ask he will say she is a friend.

Because I trusted him I just ignored. All the while we were together, no lady came visiting except his colleagues from work. My birthday was in April, I had a small party with few friends, so 2 days after I sent him a text confessing my love and affection to him, his reply was so cold.

So I went over to his apartment so we can talk, that was where he dropped the bomb!!!. That he told his family about me, they said he can’t marry non Yoruba. That I should give him time to sort things out. I cried my eyes out. He even suggested that I get pregnant for him so that his family won’t stop us from getting married, i refused!.
Then he came up again that it was a prophecy a prophetess gave his mum, that if he should get married to a non Yoruba, its either the marriage won’t last or one of us will die (God forbid!). I just told him that, my God isn’t tribalistic and he doesn’t kill or give such prophecies!. I broke up with him.

After some days, he said we should go seek spiritual help that we should go to one of his pastors so we can pray to avert the prophecy. I agreed, so a day to when we were suppose to go, i just decided to check his IG page and I saw it. The pics of the girl, he up loaded two pics of hers with a romantic caption. I went mad and told him to stay away from me.

After a while I felt it wasn’t necessary being enemies since we live in the same compound. We became friends again, that people still think we were dating. Fast forward to last 2 weekends his girlfriend came visiting, though he told me she will be coming over. I felt bad but since we have broken up, i just decided to stay cool.

I carried myself well and avoided seeing him or the girl. It worked, i then decided to stay away from him for good. All the while the girl was around, he kept calling but i didn’t pick up nor gave him any room to talk to him. My problem now is, i want to stay away from him but it seems impossible, i need advice".

Thanks

Hi, I am a girl of 23 and i have been dating my boyfriend for close to a year now. We have been doing Fine Until recently. I am a virgin, while he is a sexually active guy. I have always had the wish to Get married to a virgin. And i have not met one person that has been able to convince me otherwise. Recently, we started having issue over this issue.

I am not ready to give in and he is like he cannot hold on again. We stay in different part of the country. So we only Get to see once a while but we communicate constantly via social media and phone calls. Few days ago he told me if he cheats on me that I should not crucify him and that he cannot hold on for too long again and then we had an issue over that and then he asked me if I will prefer he cheats on me and not tell me.

I appreciate his honesty and sincerity but then I don’t think I can stand it if he cheats on me. I am not ready to break up with him and he is equally not ready to break up with me either. Initially the issue looked like something I could avoid but not anymore. I am not ready to change my mind and he told me it is difficult by the day for him to keep up with that.

I am really so Confused. Now it looks like I am a selfish person and i should probably just let him be since I cannot give him my body. But then I am Confused if I should overlook it but I fear that will mean he can keep cheating. I need advice.
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The look on his face said it all, and it was a look with many emotions rolled up in one.

Each of his words was laced with a deep sense of grief, despair, and confusion; he had lost his woman and his first son in one day.

Buchi Eze, 30, stood awkwardly on the edge of the pit, where his woman, Blessing, had fallen to her death. She was 23 years old and was eight months pregnant.

Perhaps, Eze’s confusion overrode other emotions as he told his story because only a day before, Blessing had just returned home from a hospital, where she was on admission for four days after falling inside a pit beside the one in which she had taken her last fall.

“I am confused; I don’t understand how my woman fell inside the pits twice in one week,” he said with a look that seemed to be seeking for answers in the air.

“Her death was painful and I don’t think it was natural. The pits have been there for a long time and she met them here when she moved in with me in January, so how did she fall inside the pits twice in six days? She was not mentally unstable and did not show any suicidal tendencies.
“All the children in the compound pass there always and none of them has fallen inside before, so I am still confused. After she fell inside one of the pits the first time, I dismissed it as a mistake, but after the second one, I concluded that it was not natural.”

The couple shared a rented room in an uncompleted building on Akinola Street in Lusada community, Ado-Odo/Ota Local Government Area of Ogun State, until the incident.

Both pits were meant to serve as septic tank and soak away for the adjoining house but because there was no fence separating the buildings, Eze and other occupants of the house only had to walk about two metres from their backyard door to reach the edge of the pits.

Both pits had been overgrown by weeds after being abandoned since 2012.

Eze had not slept in the house since the incident occurred because he was afraid of what memories of Blessing and all they shared would come with. He feared the worst; he was frightened that they would bring nightmares and more tears.

Since Blessing’s death, Eze has been having goose pimples every now and then, so he concluded that her spirit still hovered nearby.

Eze’s curiosity was also piqued by Blessing’s last words to him after he had jumped in the pit to save her.

“I was on my way home when I heard that my woman was in pit the second time,” he said.

“When I got there, I saw my woman lying face down in the pit again. She was sleeping gently when I left home. She lay on the ground face down. People were holding me but I jumped inside the pit.

“As I raised her head up, she seemed to regain consciousness. I said ‘why again? Do you want to kill me? She said she did not know how she got there, and that she just realised where she was as we were talking.”

First fall