LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP ANGLE

 Pastor Jerry Uchechukwu Eze shared photos of his young daughter lost in deep worship while he was ministering in church earlier today.  Below is what he wrote:
"Early this morning at about few minutes past 5am, I had arrived the church and put a call across to my wife who was getting ready to be in church for our 1st of the month Early Morning Prayer, I told her to tell my daughter not to fall again when she is been prayed for, according to me, I believe she doesn't understand what it means to be slain, until she understands it, she shouldn't . My wife said she had already done that before I called.

Everyone in church know that I LOVE CHILDREN. I always pray that children will encounter God early. I met God early too. I wished I even met him earlier.
Today, while I was in the front ministering, I didn't even know the media team took these pictures and my wife was in the front too. My daughter was right at the back lost in deep worship. I have noticed this even at home. She could go on for close to 20 minutes.

In church, once you separate her from other children and she isn't playing,she prays for as long as prayers last with deep concentration and brokenness and she worships in tears...

I remember all that I told God before she came. I remember all I told God again when God asked me to teach Supernatural Parenting. I remember again all that I told God when He asked me to turn it into a book. I have a book called SUPERNATURAL PARENTING. I see some of the Supernatural Manifestations I wrote about in the life of my 5 year old daughter.

Today, I repent from what I told my wife in the morning
Who said our children can't discern spiritual things very early?
Who said they can't be lost in an atmosphere of deep worship?
Who said they can't be taught of the Lord?

Who said they must be like regular children?
Today, I pray for your born and unborn children
1. May they encounter the Lord very early in their lives
2. May they never stray from the Path of Righteousness
3. May their hearts burn with zeal and passion for the things of the Lord
4. May they never make the mistakes you made in Jesus name!

Source: Linda Ikeji

The tides are rapidly changing and in this unstable economy, everyone — regardless of social standing and class — must adapt to survive.

Adapting can be extremely challenging especially when the situation is an economic recession in a country with more problems than just the economy.
Here are some things to cut down on in order to make it out of this recession financially sane.

1. Generator usage

It’s bad enough the economy is crumbling faster than a cookie but how many Nigerians can recall a lenghty spell of uninterrupted power supply.
Our standby household generators have for years, been doing what the government cannot do for us.
Now that the situation is getting dire, generator usage should be restricted to specific hours and to take care of necessities.
Comfort can wait till recession is over and we are out of troubled waters.

2. Eating out

Anyone who actually cooks will know that restaurants serve overpriced, often unsatisfying food.
So instead of taking your hard earned money to pay for ‘fancy’ food, go to the market, buy raw food and head to the kitchen.
You’ll save so much money.

3. Driving walkable distances

The cost of fuel is higher than it has ever been in Nigeria’s history, so why not kill two birds with one stone while going for short errands.
Take a walk or go for a run while running your errand. Your body and pockets will thank you.

4. Bulk buying of groceries

Constant grocery shopping can be such a chore so we tend to buy in bulk.
However, a disadvantage of bulk buying is that some goods may expire or spoil before you get around to using them, hence cut your grocery shopping list down to necessities.
Get what you need and not what you think you will need.

5. New clothes and shoes

Your old clothes are perfectly fine!
Oh you think people have noticed you’ve had that shirt for a while? Frankly, it’s nobody’s business.
As long as your clothes are not obviously tattered, there is no use going cloth shopping every week to impress people and depress your bank account.

6. Hanging out

We all love spending quality time with friends and family but instead of going someplace where you’ll spend more than you budgeted for (more often than not), invite them to your house and plan activities everyone can participate in.
You’ll create a stronger bond and more lasting activities while saving money.

7. Vacations abroad

Also known as “the king of excesses”, vacationing abroad is officially a luxury at this point in time.
Why go and spend your hard earned ‘naira’ in a foreign country contributing to the growth of their economy while leaving yours in the backseat.
Stay at home!

8. DSTV subscription

You don’t need to pay for all the channels. It’s not a competition.
You hardly ever watch more than 15 of the channels on the premium package, so why the bother?
The smallest bouquet has news channels for the grown-ups and cartoons for the kids.

9. Water as opposed to juice and sodas

Some people think there is an award for living lavish. News flash: there isn’t.
Most of these processed drinks you desire to gulp down your throat with every meal are not even good for your health and they definitely cost more than water. Drink water, you’ll live longer.

10. Unnecessary phone calls

Restrict your airtime to calls with purpose (work, business).
There’s no need to ask your friend what he/she is eating or staying on a call for an hour discussing what nail polish colour to wear to an event.
There are tons of instant messaging services. Embrace them.

Source: The cable lifestyle

Undoubtedly, ginger is one of the most beneficial spices you can use. It contains a number of useful properties which help in the case of various health issues.
It can be consumed as a food supplement or as a tea. This amazing root has a great number of uses, it can be used against cancer, it can literally destroy ovarian cancer cells and it can reduce the risk of irritable bowel syndrome. Moreover, ginger can be of great help in losing weight, as it activates the digestive juices, and the function of the digestive system is improved.

Ginger acts as a fat burner, helping in fat loss and it can also help people feel fuller for a long time. Furthermore, ginger protects from Alzheimer’s disease since it slows down the loss of brain cells, as found in a study.

Regardless of the type of the pain, this root can relieve it, as it possesses anti-inflammatory properties which alleviate the pain. You will surely feel the benefits during the day, if you start it by consuming a cup of ginger tea in the morning.

This plant also has an amazing effect on your sinuses, as it can unclog them and ease the drainage. Simply prepare a cup of hot ginger tea and enjoy all its benefits without any possible side-effects.

Furthermore, ginger helps in controlling the glucose levels which act directly on people’s weight and energy levels. It has been proven to improve concentration as well.

Ginger enhances the absorption of necessary nutrients. Ginger has anti-inflammatory properties and can help with inflammation-based conditions and diseases. It reduces arthritic inflammation.

Its consumption may not solve your asthma condition completely, but it can be of great help, as it opens up airways and eases any pain symptoms caused by this kind of issues.

As it cleans the palate and leaves your mouth refreshed, ginger can be quite beneficial in the improvement of your breath as well. Prepare your ginger drink by mixing it with hot water. This beverage is amazing in flushing out your mouth and neutralizing the bad taste inside.

Ginger significantly improves your immune system, so it helps in the prevention of colds and other illnesses.

You can improve your circulation by consuming ginger as well, and it will make you feel energetic. It also opens your pores and makes circulation function better.


As your whole circulatory system is boosted by its consumption, ginger can also serve as a powerful aphrodisiac for both genders. This root can also recover tired muscles, so people can be more active.

You can avoid heartburn using ginger. Ginger has properties which can get rid of the excess acid that triggers heartburn, so you can use it to avoid these issues. You can use it for a longer period of time, as it can cause no side effects.

Start using ginger in order to avoid gasses. Drink a cup of ginger tea before going to bed, and it will act during the night. It will clear out your digestive system and neutralize the problem on the inside.

This remarkable root can also stop motion sickness and all of its symptoms, including dizziness, nausea, cold sweats and the like.

To sum up, the numerous benefits of the use if ginger can restore your health and prevent all kinds of illnesses, hence, it is highly recommended that you try and add it into your everyday diet. Note that you should always use it fresh in order to enjoy all its benefits!

Source: Pure9jagist

Well done for asking yourself this question. It shows good judgment to stop and think about the possible downsides of a situation. In fact, you’re probably asking because your gut is telling you it’s not a good idea. Trust your instincts.
Sharing pictures may seem private. But in reality, nothing digital is ever 100% guaranteed private.

Once a picture’s out there, you can’t take it back. And you can’t control where it ends up. The best way to avoid any problems is not to take the picture in the first place.

It’s natural to want to make your boyfriend happy, so it may seem hard to say no to a request like this. But here’s the thing: If your boyfriend is a good guy, he’ll have more respect for you when you stay true to your values. Saying no is a chance to help your relationship grow by letting your boyfriend know more about what you believe and stand for.

You can let your boyfriend down without making him feel like a creep for asking. Just make it about you. For example, here are some ideas on what you might say:
“I don’t feel comfortable with that. I know you won’t share my pictures, but I once forwarded a message to the wrong person by mistake and I felt terrible afterward. I don’t want there to be any chance of that.”
“I don’t feel comfortable with that. What if your mom/dad/little brother/school roommate got hold of your phone and saw it? What if MY mom or dad saw it?”
“Photos can be so cold and impersonal. They just don’t have the same meaning as being together. What I’d really like is to share pictures like the ones of the bike ride we took last week. Then we don’t have to worry about other people seeing them. And it reminds me how great it feels to be with you and how much fun we have together.”

This whole situation may scream “AWKWARD!” But it’s a good way to learn about your relationship. For starters, you’ll get clues into your boyfriend’s personality. If he understands and accepts that you don’t want to send Unclad pictures, it’s a sign he respects and cares for you. But if he still tries to get photos from you (like if he says “don’t worry, I’ll delete them right away!”

It’s a red flag: If he cares for you, why put you in a situation that upsets you or makes you uncomfortable?
The situation also gives you clues about yourself. If you worry about saying no, is it a self-esteem issue? Or is it because your BF is more controlling about the relationship? Where’s the real pressure coming from? Is your BF pressuring you or are you pressuring yourself in an attempt to make him happy?

So why do people send sexy pictures? Some people mistake it for a way to feel closer. But it’s actually a false sense of closeness. Photos can’t replace being together and talking about the things you both consider private and personal. Sharing like this helps your bond grow stronger because you see the other person’s reaction and pick up on his feelings. That doesn’t happen when you hit “send” on a photograph.

So let your instincts guide you, and take pride in the fact that you know yourself!
A boy sent me over 20 pictures of his girlfriend pleaded me to leak the whole pictures on internet because the girl hurt him.

Please what do you have to say about this thread?

1....Maturity is when you accept other people the way they are and their level of maturity.

2....Maturity is when you understand that your ideas are not always the best.

3....Maturity is when you learn to let go even if it pains.

4...Maturity is when you are able to drop expectations from a relationship and give for giving sake.

5....Maturity is when you understand whatever you do, you do for your own peace.

6....Maturity is when you stop proving to the world how intelligent you are.

7....Maturity is when you stop comparing yourself with others because life is not a competition.

8....Maturity is when you understand that you can't and shouldn't always get what you want every time.

9....Maturity is when you are content and satisfied with your life and yet aspiring to be better everyday..

10....Maturity is when someone hurts you and you understand his/her attitude and stay clear than trying to hurt them back.

11....Maturity is when you start thinking of the good you can do to other people and not just yourself.

12....Maturity is when you know you can't please everyone.

13....Maturity is when you see things in different perspectives far beyond the way they are.

14....Maturity is when you love people more and judge them less.

15....Maturity is Responsibility

16....Maturity is Love

17....Maturity is the application of wisdom and knowledge

18....Maturity is when you accept that your accomplishment, failures, destiny, reputations and almost everything about your life depends on the choice you make and not pointing fingers on others. When you are able to make a decision and stand to bear the consequences of your actions.

19....Maturity is when you stand on the word of Love and not on the words people say about your relationship or spouse.

20....Maturity is knowing God, serving him with all that you've got and pursuing his kingdom no matter what people think or say.......

Since the husband don't want another man (a male doctor) to see his wife's body, he should have taken her to one of those 'mama' who delivers women at home and be ready for any fall out. Maybe the doctor should have closed his eyes while taking the delivery. Sigh!
Police have arrested a man after he shot a male doctor shortly after he helped deliver his wife’s baby.

The husband was angry that the hospital had allowed a male doctor to attend to his wife during birth.
The crazy husband is believed to have wanted a female doctor to deliver the baby and was upset that the male doctor identified as Muhannad al-Zabn, would have seen his wife without clothes.

The baby was born in April at King Fahad Medical City in Saudi city of Riyadh, according to Gulf News. But after the birth, the man reportedly travelled to the hospital and contacted Dr al-Zabn for a quick chat.

The man said he wanted to thank Dr al-Zabn for delivering his wife's baby without any major complications. After meeting in the hospital's garden, the man reportedly pulled out a handgun and shot Dr al-Zabn.


Following the attack, the father ran from the scene but was later tracked down and arrested by Saudi police.

Another rape Technique in Town. Ladies pls be careful.

A woman was taken by 5 men, who according to hospital and police report was raped by a gang before being dumped at a bus
station!

Though she was unable to remember the events of the previous evening, tests conducted revealed that she had been raped repeatedly.

There was a trace of Rohypnol in her blood.

Rohypnol, is presently being used as a date rape drug.

It is actually a small sterilization pill which is now being used by rapists to drug their targets at parties.

The drug makes the mind of the target (would be victim) go blank so that she does not remember anything that transpired and worse still, the drug sterilizes the victim so that she doesn't conceive from the rape and the rapist need not worry about having his identity revealed later by a paternity test.

The real bad news is that the drug's side effects ARE NOT TEMPORARY, they are
PERMANENT.

Any female that takes it WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO CONCEIVE.

The drug is
administered by dropping it into the target's drink.

The girl wouldn't remember a thing the next morning, nothing at all that had taken place the night before will she remember.

Rohypnol, dissolves rapidly and easily in drinks, leaving no taste and no change in color which makes it impossible to detect.

These weasels can get this drug from anyone who is in the vet school or any medical  university.

It's that easy and Rohypnol is about to break out big on campuses everywhere.

Believe it or not, there are even sites on the internet telling people how to use it.

Girls, please be careful when you're out, especially on a date, don't leave your drink unattended.

(Buy your own drinks, ensure bottles or cans received are unopened or sealed; don't even taste someone else's drink).

There has already been a report in Nigeria of girls' drinks being spiked by Rohypnol.

For guys - Please inform all your female family members, relatives and friends.

Remember you also have sisters or might one day have a daughter(s).

Important News are meant to be passed on, please don't keep or ignore.

This was sent to me and I feel I should pass it on so that we are better equipped to protect our loved ones.

Please share to protect and save lives.
🚫PLS GIRLS TRUST NO ONE.

I’ve learned-
that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.

I’ve learned-
that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.

I’ve learned-
that no matter how good a friend is, they’re going to hurt you once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

I’ve learned-
that it’s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts.

I’ve learned-
that you should never ruin an apology with an excuse.

I’ve learned-
that you shouldn’t compare yourself to the best others can do.

I’ve learned-
that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

I’ve learned-
that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I’ve learned-
that either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I’ve learned-
that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I’ve learned-
that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you’re down will be the ones to help you get back up.

I’ve learned-
that sometimes when I’m angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn’t give me the right to be cruel.

I’ve learned-
that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.

I’ve learned-
that just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all they have.

I’ve learned-
that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you’ve had and what you’ve learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you’ve celebrated.

I’ve learned-
that it isn’t always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you are to learn to forgive yourself.

I’ve learned-
that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

I’ve learned-
that a rich person is not the one who has the most, but is one who needs the least.

I’ve learned-
that just because two people argue, it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other. And just because they don’t argue, it doesn’t mean they do.

I’ve learned-
that you shouldn’t be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.

I’ve learned-
that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.

I’ve learned-
that it’s hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people’s feelings, and standing up for what you believe.

I’ve learned-
that people will forget what you said, and people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.

WHAT HAVE YOU LEARNT IN LIFE?

It is very important we understand that there is a great difference between being single and married. From research we have found out that the nature/character of a married man/woman ought to be different from that of a bachelor/spinster. 

We encourage you to patiently go through the list below as this will give us an understanding of some of the traits of singlehood  having adverse effect on marriages.

1. Don’t get married if you are worried about following a man’s lead.

2. Don’t get married if you always have to be right in an argument.

3. Don’t get married if you have to always be in control.

4. Don’t get married if you are protective over your stuff or your money.

5. Don’t get married if you don’t want someone else telling you what to do.

6. Don’t get married if you are always talking about how you “got this” by yourself.

7. Don’t get married if you are waiting on him to mess up.

8. Don’t get married if you plan to keep wearing your independent badge of honour after you’ve taken off your wedding dress.

Note: The traits are not limited to these. 
Source: information Nigeria

In case you’re in doubt, here are 26 things a woman does when she loves you, besides just saying the words

1. When she’s squeezing your hand.

2. When she just looks at you and doesn’t say anything at all.

3. When she invents a million silly pet names for you.

4. When she likes all of your posts.

5. When she tries to win over your friends.

6. When she isn’t scared to cry in front of you.

7. When she goes out of her comfort zone to try something you love.

8. When she texts you to tell you about her lunch.

9. When she sends you a makeup-free selfie.

10. When she cooks for you.

11. When she rolls her eyes at you.

12. When she loses her temper.

13. When she reaches out to you when you sob in her presence.

14. When she tugs your ear lobes.

16. When she misses you like crazy.

17. When she asks you for what she needs.

18. When she trusts you with her heart.

19. When she expects you to tell her the truth.

20. When she farts in front of you AND jokes about it.

21. When she gives you a shelf in the bathroom.

22. When she reminds you to take your medicine.

23. When she runs out of things to say and doesn’t force the conversation.

24. When she watches you get dressed in the morning with shining eyes.

25. When she wraps her arms around you and makes you swear that you will never let her go.

And I add,
26. She prays for your safety and prosperity.

Source: information Nigeria