CONSEQUENCES OF IMPATIENCE 

IMPATIENCE has been around for a long time. There is nothing new about people losing their patience while stuck in traffic or waiting in ...

IMPATIENCE has been around for a long time. There is nothing new about people losing their patience while stuck in traffic or waiting in line. But some experts believe that people are less patient today than in the past—and for reasons that might surprise you.
Some analysts suggest that in recent years many people are less patient now because of technology. Researchers suggest that “digital technology, ranging  from cell phones to iPods to etc, is changing our lives. The instant results we get from this technology have in turn increased our appetite for instant gratification in other aspects of our lives.”

A psychologist makes some sobering observations. She explains that “we have become an immediate gratification culture, and we expect things to move quickly, efficiently and in the way we want; forgetting that time moves with the speed of time not by our expectation. And when that doesn’t happen, we tend to become increasingly frustrated and irritable, which is a sign of impatience.” She adds, “We’ve lost the art of just slowing down and enjoying the moment.”
Many people do not take the time to proof read what they put in writing. As a result, letters and e-mails go out to the wrong recipients or contain numerous grammatical and typographical errors.
Many people do not have the patience to read lengthy text on a printed page because they are accustomed to navigating speedily through Web pages, jumping from blurb to blurb and from bullet to bullet, hoping to land on the main point as quickly as possible.
The thirst for immediate results is not limited to the realm of digital communication. People seem to be losing their ability to wait in other areas of life. For instance, for some, waiting for a traffic light to change, or for a computer to boot up may seem like an eternity.

Whatever happened to patience?
Experts do not have all the answers when it comes to the causes of impatience. Yet, there seems to be compelling evidence that impatience can be harmful.

RISK OF IMPATIENCE
Do you often become impatient with your parents? Or are you a parent who quickly runs out of patience with your young children? Are you easily annoyed by the mistakes of others?

Everyone is likely to become impatient on occasion. But there may be serious consequences when bouts of impatience are an everyday occurrence.

HEALTH RISK:
For one thing, impatience is linked to frustration, irritation, and even anger. Such emotions can raise our stress level, which in turn can harm our health. Impatience is a risk factor for hypertension, even among young adults.
"Researchers found that impatient individuals are more likely to be obese than people who are good at waiting,” they also found that impatient people are likely to be chronic procrastinators. Could it be that they feel compelled to postpone time-consuming tasks because they do not have the patience needed to bring the tasks to completion? 
Poor judgment: impatient people “often make quick, shallow choices.” Impatience can cost you money, friendships, pain and suffering or any number of consequences simply because impatience is often followed by bad decisions.”
Impatience can damage our ability to communicate. When a person does not have the patience to engage in meaningful conversation, he tends to speak without thinking. He may also get annoyed when others speak. Such a person does not have the patience to wait for others to get to the point of what they are saying. Such impatience can result in the loss of friendships.

These are just a few of the bad consequences that may result from impatience. God's time always is the best. A waiting time is not a wasting time. Bend down and you will smell the roses.

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