LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP ANGLE

SHOCKING BUT I AM GOING FOR A DIVORCE “Why shouldn’t  I divorce my wife after almost 7 years of marriage? Afterall, she is the reason my life is a shamble. I blame her for making me miserable and unhappy. I think I made a mistake in the first place by getting maried to her. When I am done with her, I would remarry as there are so many beautiful and perfect ladies out there  God understands and would forgive me knowing human imperfections. Grace covers it all” On the contrary, God’s standards cannot be compromised irrespective of who...

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It is no secret to anyone who is either married or in a committed intimate relationship that quarrels occur from time to time. For some couples these times are few and far between while for others they are frequent. For many couples the arguments are frustrating, anxiety provoking and, if really serious, can lead to the end of the relationship. Having being married for a few years, I have made some observations about arguments and what should and should not occur. Observation 1: I have observed thousands of times in working among married and intimate couples that where...

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Testimony OF A Brother In Our Last Marriage Summit! A Must Read! I grew up with the notion that was enshrined in the Bible that Marriage is honourable and He who has found a wife has found a good thing and obtained favour from the Lord. This my view was however shattered as my brother I was staying with after my graduation from University got married amidst glitz and glamour. The wedding day was very colourful and expensively organised.  Everyone that came was happy and knew that the marriage has taken off on a good start. This however...

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 Over the years, I’ve become convinced that praise sets up a mantle of protection around the people of God. Praise is an atmosphere through which the Adversary cannot move. If you and I really entered into this truth, it would transform our lives. And it’s not simply because praise can insulate or protect us. It’s more than that. It’s because God is worthy, . . . worthy of the best of our praise, the depths of our thanksgiving. As you ask the Lord to teach you more and more about the tireless, ongoing spirit of praise, it will...

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Avoid these kind of girls and you will enjoy your marriage relationship if you are also set for marriage. Beware!!! Guys, not all that glitters is gold. Not every girl should be taken to mama. Do not consider marrying: 1. A girl whose friends are “free chops”- girls of easy virtue/ No matter how different she claims to be. 2. A girl that tells lies like rain drops. 3. A girl whose mum does not respect her dad. (this is conditional though) 4. A girl who has no ambition. 5. A girl who gossips talks about others negatively....

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Come with me to a third grade classroom..... There is a nine-year-old kid sitting at his desk and all of a sudden, there is a puddle between his feet and the front of his pants are wet. He thinks his heart is going to stop because he cannot possibly imagine how this has happened.  It's never happened before, and he knows that when the boys find out he will never hear the end of it. When the girls find out, they'll never speak to him again as long as he lives.  The boy believes his heart is going...

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A certain girl was in love with a particular guy. The guy was treating the girl so badly. He was insulting her publicly. The girl,however, despite the abuse, continued loving the guy. The harsh treatment never stopped raining on her till they broke up. The girl took 4 years without falling in love with any guy for thinking that all men are the same. But one clear sunny day as she was going to the market, a certain man proposed her. She went home and asked God if he is not a demon from satan. She, the following...

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Young single ladies listen to me. Its good to desire to marry a man of God. But you must also know that Marriage is different from the pulpit. When a preacher mounts the pulpit, he becomes another man. He may preach on self-control even if he just beat a hell out of his wife before coming to church. God may still use him to win souls even if he is a thorn in the flesh of his wife probably because of the eagerly waiting congregation. So don't marry anointing. Don't be carried away by the Charisma of a...

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Got this post from a friend : "WOMAN ● changes her name ● changes her home ● leaves her family ● moves in with you ● builds a home with you ● gets pregnant for you ● pregnancy changes her body ● she gets fat ● almost gives up in the labour room due to the unbearable pain of child birth ● even the kids she delivers bear your name till the day she dies... everything she does... cooking, cleaning your house, taking care of your parents, bringing up your children, earning, advising you, ensuring you can be...

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A man remains in critical condition in hospital after stabbing himself repeatedly in front of police and then throwing his intestines at them. Wayne Carter, 43, called police in Hackensack, New Jersey at 10 p.m. on Sunday to say he had a knife and was threatening to hurt himself. Officers swooped on his Clay Street home and kicked in the door to his room, which he had blocked with furniture, Lt. John Heinemann said. Scene: Wayne Carter, 43, called police to his home on Clay Street (pictured), Hackensack, then stabbed himself and threw intestines and skin at them...

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A case of Zika virus acquired through sexual transmission has been confirmed by Dallas County health officials in the United States. According to a press release from the Dallas County Health and Human Services department, the patient reportedly had sexual contact with another infected individual who recently returned from a country where the Zika virus is present. “Now that we know Zika virus can be transmitted through sex, this increases our awareness campaign in educating the public about protecting themselves and others,” said Zachary Thompson, DCHHS director. In related development the General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church...

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Wonders they say will never end. See the type of leaders we have ruling over the affairs in the state. The Whistle has been monitoring reports that the Governor of Kaduna state Mallam Nasir el-Rufai and his deputy, Architect Barnabas Bala Bantex had traded slaps during an argument at a cabinet meeting in the state. According to a reliable source via a telephone conversation, the Governor and the deputy have been having a cold war over the plans by the governor to sack top civil servants in the state. The governor who is embarking on a civil service...

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Armpit odour can be an embarrassing problem for many people. For some, the odour is barely noticeable and does not pose a problem. But for others, body odour problems can be ongoing. It can lead to social isolation, self esteem and even end relationships. Actually sweat does not have much of a smell, the stink is produced by the bacteria which live on the surface of the skin. The bacteria break down the sweat, and the waste product is responsible for the odour. Since the cause of armpit odour is bacteria, it makes sense that if we reduce the amount of...

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My boss drove a luxury car everyday and it was my duty to greet him and to open the gates for him, as I worked as a watchman in his villa. But he never responded back to my greetings. One day he saw me opening the garbage bags outside the villa in search for any leftover food. But, as usual he never even looked at me, it was like as if he never saw anything! The very next day I saw a paper bag at the same place, but it was clean and the food inside was covered...

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One question for this so called pastor; How much were you paid for this lie that made you throw caution to the wind? Kallamu Musa Dikwa, Remember him?  The pastor who alleged that ex-President Goodluck Jonathan, gave out N7 billion to the leadership of the Christian Association of Nigeria (CAN) and Pentecostal Fellowship off Nigeria (PFN), to facilitate and support his reelection has confessed to lying. Musa Dikwa who is the Executive Director of the Voice of Northern Christian Movement (VNCM), has admitted to telling lies and now seeks forgiveness from those whom he maligned. The controversial pastor...

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 Once again, the Nigerian economy gets its much needed boost as the naira rises in value against the dollar at the black market. The Nigerian currency in the parallel market exchanged for N322 against the dollar yesterday, but today, the 24th of March, 2016, it has regained its value by a simple N2 drop.See a screenshot of its value below: ...

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(A post from a friend). I have not eaten all day, I am not fasting but am in despair and in shock. How can I explain this to you? By this time last night, she was in my arms, we were cuddled together naked and just finished making love to catch up for the lost time. It was pleasurable as usual and we enjoyed it. We haven't seen each other for few weeks and we were in love. She was the lead chorister in my church, a vibrant sister, very beautiful but was my lover and partner in...

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One thing (among many, which we post all over this web site) that has helped us grow our marriage to be a wonderful one is having a sense of humor and not taking everything so seriously. So, we thought we’d look at love (before marriage) from a humorous side and then we’ll share how to love your spouse God’s way. A while back we received the following from the Cybersalt ministry (you can sign up for their free emails atcybersalt.org) that brings out a humorous twist on what it is to love. First we’ll share what they emailed...

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Emotional availability Whether obvious or otherwise, a major way one can ward off love is to exhibit traces of emotional unavailability. Sometimes, it could be the way you dress, how you respond to conversation-openers, and even attitude. Even if you are a victim of a bad breakup, taking offence at the friendliness of all persons of the opposite sex is not only going to make you resentful for a long time, it will haunt you in the future when you’re ready to open up again. Remember that there are far less people to blame for the failure of...

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Ever read the Panchatantra tale of the friendship between the monkey and the crocodile !? Back then it used to amuse me only on the grounds of the talking animals involved, the rose apples and ofcourse the name of the crocodile- Ugly Mug. I remember that I and my brother used to have a good laugh at that. The reason that I write about my love for this story now is only because I have understood the moral of it. The monkey, an herbivore befriends a crocodile, its predator. Despite the obvious danger to the monkey, the friendship...

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Mrs Florence And Her Child: Child: "Mummy, you are raising your voice." Mummy: "Yes, it's because of what you just did. You made me raise it!" Child: "But..." Mummy: "But what?" Child: "You told me it's not good to raise your voice and that nothing should ever make you do it." Mummy: "Well, you provoked me, son. And I couldn't help it. So, you caused it." ...................................................... Mrs Joy And Her Child: Child: "Mummy, you are raising your voice." Mummy: "I am sorry, son. It's not right to do so. It's not okay under any circumstance. I shouldn't...

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A distraught Asaba based middle age pastor has revealed how he caught his wife having sex with a choirmaster in his church. According to the pastor, who heads a new generation church in the town, the story of his wife’s affair with the choirmaster was rumour to him, until he finally caught them. The pastor, who spoke to journalists on Thursday, said he had been married to the woman for the past twelve years without a child, adding that the wife has made him a subject of public ridicule. “I have been inundated with reports about my wife...

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She must be 'dying' to get to the church on time! A wedding bride has shocked the world by turning up at her own wedding in a Coffin!!! I call this different shades of madness. Lol. The happy couple after their marriage 58-year-old bride, Jenny Buckleff, has shocked her wedding guests after turning up to her wedding in a horse-drawn carriage laid in a coffin and adorned with a picture of the Grim Reaper. She lay in the black coffin with the lid closed as she was pulled along by a motorcycle in honour of her brother –...

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A Zimbabwean man whipped his wife for claiming that she was a virgin before he married her after he discovered that she was not during their honeymoon. During the Civil court hearing, the court heard that after the man, Shepherd Musekiwa discovered that his wife, Patricia, was not a virgin during their honeymoon, and he thoroughly flogged as punishment with a whip he bought in Mbare. Patricia was seeking a protection order against Shepherd. She also told magistrate Mrs Barbra Mateko that Shepherd had also resorted to “manufacturing” allegations against her in a bid to divorce her and...

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Marriage is sweet, interesting and challenging. If you must have a blissful marriage, there are certain words that shouldn't proceed out of your mouth because the mouth is a doorway to success and also to failure, so the choice is yours to decide.  Below are 5 things that can easily creep in and leave lasting scars: 1. Mentioning divorce Crazy things can come out of all our mouths when we're angry. And although we regret it, a lot of things that are said can't be taken back simply because they cut so deep and will always be remembered....

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The love of money, is the root of ALL evil (emphasis mine). Every evil act is prompted by the love of money, no exception and that ungodly love, usually leads its victim on the long and tortuous journey to self destruction and perdition. According to the story, the woman whose head is bowed in shame in the picture below, got a job courtesy of her husband so they could have money to feed and run the family until such a time that he can sort out his financial mess. The man who offered her the job did so...

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