Young single ladies listen to me. Its good to desire to marry a man of God. But you must also know that Marriage is different from the pulpit.

When a preacher mounts the pulpit, he becomes another man. He may preach on self-control even if he just beat a hell out of his wife before coming to church. God may still use him to win souls even if he is a thorn in the flesh of his wife probably because of the eagerly waiting congregation.

So don't marry anointing. Don't be carried away by the Charisma of a man. A man can be anointed and still be a worst husband if he has the "GIFT OF THE SPIRIT but LACK THE FRUIT OF THE SPIRIT.

If you marry him because he performs on stage or because he casts out demons, you are not wise.

Don't conclude that he is a gentle man because he ministers powerfully on gentility or self control. The gentility of a single man is untested until he marries"

In addition, a deacon in the church maybe a dragon at home. A president of a fellowship may not be a resident of heaven. That dedicated worker in the church maybe a dedicated worker of iniquity. That quiet singer may be a quiet serpent. Pray and be patient lest you marry a saintly prostitute or a tongue-speaking home boxing champion

Above all, allow God to lead you to the man or woman after His own heart. The will of God will not take you to a place where His grace cannot sustain

May you not fall in love and fall into trouble in Jesus name!