Proverbs 14:1 Says: The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down.
Your marriage can be a heaven on earth if you know the secrets that makes a man fall in love with his wife forever. If you desire your husband to treat you like his beauty queen, practice the following points:
1. Respect Your Husband
Someone says “A wise wife respects and treats her husband as dad in sitting room, treat him as king or guest on the dining table, as a president in the public and as a baby in the bedroom
Number one need of a man is RESPECT. Every woman that desires to win the heart of her husband must Learn to RESPECT her husband! This is one of the greatest gifts you can give him. Whenever you begin to do this, your husband will place much value on you and your requests will always be granted! Value what he says. Take every word of your husband serious! Don't underrate him. Believe in him. Whenever he passes an instruction to you, take it as the word of the king! Be proud of him. Say good things about him to your family and friends. No one will respect him when you don't celebrate him as your treasure!

2. Satisfy His Sexual Need-I Cor 7:1-5
80 percent of crisis at home comes directly or indirectly from the bedroom.
A loving, gentle, caring and anointed husband can suddenly become irritated, unloving, difficult and wicked if he's denied sex. Sex is the tonic of marriage. The truth is men love sex just like they love food.  That's the way we are wired.
Sex is holy in marriage. Sex is not only for procreation but also for PLEASURE. The more you have sex with your husband, the more intimate you become! Enjoy sex with your husband. Don’t be stingy with your body. Don't starve your husband of sex. Don't create room for him to go outside and commit adultery because men don't joke with sex. Sex is food to them. Some men enjoy having sex with their wives in the morning when their libido is at its very peak. But some prefer other times. Get ready for him at any time. Sex can take place anytime, anywhere(e.g kitchen, bathroom, sitting room etc) and anyhow but in privacy between you and your husband. Try to satisfy him because you are the only option for him. As a woman that desires to win the heart of her husband, you must be consistent in your sexual life with your husband. Let your breast satisfies him always as the Bible says! Proverbs 5:15-19.

3. BE A GOOD COOK.
One Of The Christian Women Who Came For Counselling Told Me How She Almost Lost Her Husband To A Strange Woman Because She Was A Bad Cook! When she discovered the root of her marital challenge, she stopped blaming the devil, fasting and speaking in tongues and she went straight to a Catering School!
She Is Not Only An Irresistible Cook At Home Today But Also A Much Sought After Caterer! Wow! She is a wise woman. Her husband who had stopped eating at home for sometimes repented and started eating at home and the strange woman has been kicked out of their matrimonial home.
There are little things we overlook in marriage that matter a lot. It is a big shame to you if your husband and children are still going to out to eat because you are a bad cook. Single lady, if the only thing you can cook is white rice and noodles, you need urgent counselling! See me after this teaching! Lolz
Every Good Cook Is A Potential Good Wife! A man you feed well is a man who cannot get fed up with you! When another woman begins to cook and feed your husband, be ready to lose him because a way to a man’s heart is through good food!
Knowing how to cook is not a gift from heaven, it is simply something you learn! How Good Are You In The Kitchen? Make sure you don’t fail in your kitchen ministry.

4. Be Romantic
Many of our Christian wives are not romantic. It is not a sin to be romantic. You can be romantic and still be spiritual. Play with your husband. Stop calling him by your children's names! Call him romantic names like: Honey, Sweetheart, Treasure, My Heart, My Love, My Hero, My Lord etc. Don't call him your "Daddy"! That's old school!  He's your hubby not your "Father"! Buy new pants, wear them one after the other and tell your husband to make comments. Bath together with him. Flirt with your hubby! Wear transparent night gown when you are alone in the house.   Find time to stay together. Speak romantic languages of your husband to him. Do your best to make sure your husband sees you alone. Get attractive wears (gown) for private use. Dress to kill him at home before husband snatchers dress to kill him outside because men are moved by what they see! Seduce him with your wears in your bedroom! Stop tying wrapper round your waist like an old woman. Dress to attract him. Kiss him in the public. Rest your head on his chest when both of you sit together! Put your hand round his waist when both of you go out! Tell him to carry you once in a while. Give him the best of you and your husband will always fall in love with you over and over again! Try this from tonight!

5. Don't Compare Him To Any Other Man.
No one is perfect! All men are not the same. Men hate to be compared to anybody! See him as the best man on earth.  See your husband as a rare gem. Celebrate him. There are treasures God has endowed your husband with which other men do not have. Celebrate these treasures.  Be proud of your husband. Tell him he is the best man in the world and your husband will love you forever.

6. Pray For Your Husband Always.
There is power in praying. There is no limit to how far your husband can go in life if you are a praying woman. Let him know you are praying for him. Commit his vision, health, business, finance and relationship with God into the hand of God. Bless his going out and coming in. prayerfully destroy all the demonic manipulation of strange women over your husband and family. Pray for God to endow him with wisdom to be a good husband and a father. PRAY FOR HIM ALWAYS!!!
Last but not the least..

7. Love His Family
Your husband loves you and also love his father, mother, sisters, brothers, uncles, aunties. If you want your husband to treat you like a queen, love his relatives. Don’t be a bad daughter in law. Don’t make your husband’s family your enemy. Don’t hate your mother in law. Accept, respect and care for them in your capacity. Don’t bring division between your husband and his family. You will later regret it if you do that. Love them the way you love your own relatives. Pray for them and you will win the favour of God.

You will not fail in marriage in JESUS NAME
By Pst Samuel Olagbenjo