Many people think that the worst thing that could happen to them would be to be thirty five and unmarried. But there is one thing even worse and that is to be thirty five and married to the wrong person.

MARRIAGE TODAY IS USUALLY MARRIAGE OF THE EMOTIONS. IT IS MOSTLY FOR SEX ATTRACTION AND MONEY.
Why? “Asked one of the sisters, “don’t you believe in marriage, master?” questioned a new student. “You often talk as though you were against it.” And the master said, “Marriage today is usually marriage of the emotions. It is mostly for sex attraction and money. I am against that.
Real marriage is made when two people unite to help each other toward God. It must be mostly friendship. Woman is motivated primarily by feelings and man by reason; marriage is meant to balance these qualities. When it is true marriage, I am not against it, but because young people get such poor training these days, there aren’t many real soul unions.

So I say, seek God first – then if you marry you won’t make a mistake.
Don’t hurry into it. Be willing to wait on God’s timing.
I know it is hard and I know the pressure is difficult but you will be glad you waited.