It might be hard to get over the man you love, but you won't know until you try. Women, they tend to continue relationships that destroy who they are – physically, spiritually, financially, socially and mentally.

Women give up our individuality, happiness, families, jobs, friends, pride, wealth and success- in order to satisfy the man in their lives.

Lets face it girls, they are strong and can achieve so much without anyone's help, so why let someone destroy what you worked hard for? Let's appreciate, love and believe in ourselves.

Elizabeth Nkau said: "I cooked and cleaned for him, stopped talking to all my male friends, came home early to him, bore a baby for him and what did I get? A promise to get married, which never happened, two other babies from another woman, a string of girlfriends calling his house and a Death sentence of HIV/Aids. Was it all worth it? No, I knew all along he was cheating, but I stayed because I loved him. I never realized he didn't love me back.

A man who cheats does not love you, he just likes you."I am waiting for my last breath as I lie in my bed, helpless, knowing I will leave my child without a mother."

Ladies, please don't end up like this lady.


Hmmmm! What a pain